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CATHERINE's avatar

So.

This is my view of this Gender Thing:

There are two sexes. Genders. Whatever.

Male and Female.

Male= XY chromosome;

Female= XX chromosome.

Some males are overtly masculine; others are not so much.

Some are really swishy.

Maybe they are gay, maybe just more girly guys.

It's a spectrum.

Likewise, some females are very girly; some are more masculine.

Some of them are gay, too.

Girly gay, guy style gay female.

It is a spectrum.

I think the trans thing is a delusion.

You can't change your sex. Gender.

It is encoded at conception.

I think people should learn to accept themselves as they are.

I also think society should accept people, just as they are.

And not pressure people to behave in any " gender specific" way.

Because, honestly, "sex change" is very extreme.

And, when all is said and done, they haven't changed anything.

They have just put on a costume.

These are my observations, and my opinions.

IMHO.

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Rikard's avatar

I'm going to muddle the waters a little, then.

"Gay" is the lifestyle. The sexual act is separate from that. In your example:

"My son IS gay

My son believes he is attracted (only) to other men"

the first includes the sex act, whereas the other does not include the lifestyle. Add the line:

"My son has sex with other men"

and it fits reality better. I'd even argue most men with homosexual urges, which may not be exclusionary, are not "gay" - they don't mince about the place, hips all a'swish while nattering on in Polari, all Quentin Crips-like.

(The benefits of being married to someone with a background in Queer theory and Gender studies gives one a lot of weird "knowledge".)

Moving on:

It is the same with "trans": the person in question is only "trans" as per feminist/queer ideology, during the transitional period. Before, it is a man/woman wishing to change sex and gender; after, it is the new sex and gender (as per ideological theory, not reality - in reality it is a man/woman who has undergone hormonal therapy and surgery to appear as the other sex and gender).

The idea above entered feminism from multiculturalism: the idea that a Pakistani moving to England becomes and Englishman. He/she doesn't: he reamains a Pakistani and his children will also be Pakistani, or mixed heritage (I do detest the old American label "mixed race" - we're not talking about dog breeds, but people). Using heritage makes it clear that [kultur] is a transitional concept: what it is, changes over time, both in the macro and micro formats. The problem for the 20th century - And Beyond! - is that in the West the intelligentsia decide long ago that the change itself was the point, was to be consciously guided [by them, of course] and that all indigenous kultur was WrongBadEvil, which is what has led to Spencerian Doom, which can only be countered by very nasty means. The answer to your question about ideologies detached from reality thus is multiculturalism:

"Where else do we see an entire ideology that is utterly dependent on a single, unsubstantiated, critical point?" The unsubstantiated point being that people can change their culture by an act of bureaucratic and legalistic fiat.

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